My wife Jill and I begin tonight leading a Community Group of several couples all expecting children at the same time.  The title of the group is “Shepherding a Child’s Heart” based on the book by Tedd Tripp.  I need to be honest.  I feel totally unqualified for leading this group, although I want to impart some solid Biblical Leadership for these young couples in this life-transforming transition. 

I came across this blog post by Mark Batterson.  You can find the post here and I have also cut and pasted the post into this space below.  What a challenge to leave a legacy!  WOW!  May we all have a desire to leave a godly legacy.

285 Years Ago Today

 

On January 12, 1723, Jonathan Edwards made a solemn dedication of Himself to God. It was one of the defining moments of His life. And I’ll share the written vow in a moment.

Few people have left the kind of legacy that Jonathan Edwards did. He is famous for his sermons, including Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God, that helped spark the Great Awakening. He graduated from Yale at 13 as valedictorian. After graduating, he is said to have studied thirteen hours a day. He also served as President of Princeton.

But the thing I find most impressive is that he spent one hour every evening with his eleven children. He prioritized his family and the results speak for themselves. Of his known descendants, more than 300 have become ministers or missionaries; 120 became university professors; over 100 became lawyers; 60 became prominent authors; there are 30 judges, 14 college presidents, 3 members of congress, and 1 vice-president.

How would you like to leave that kind of legacy?

Back to January 12, 1723. Edwards gave himself to God with these words:

I made a solemn dedication of myself to God, and wrote it down; giving up myself, and all that I had to God; to be for the future, in no respect, my own; to act as one that had no right to himself, in any respect. And solemnly vowed, to take God for my whole portion and felicity; looking on nothing else, as any part of my happiness, nor acting as if it were; and his law for the constant rule of my obedience.

 

Good routines become bad routines if we don’t change the routine! 

In his new book, Wild Goose Chase, Mark Batterson warns against one of the greatest dangers we face spiritually.  It is learning how, but forgetting why!

One of the keys to spiritual growth is developing healthy spiritual disciplines, but one of the dangers to our spiritual growth is going through the familiar motions but forgetting why we do it.  Batterson calls it “familiarization, habituation, and routinization. 

Batterson teaches that we tend to think and act in patterned ways and states that “the tendency to think the way we’ve always thought or do it the way we’ve always done it is called Heuristic bias.  It is an incredibly complex cognitive process, but the end result is mindlessness.” (pg. 59) 

We end up doing things without thinking about them. 

With Thanksgiving being a national holiday where we gather with family and friends and eat, is it possible that we do this routine without literally thinking about what we are thankful for?  I hope not! 

As we enter this holiday season, do something differentChange the routine in a way that will help you think about what we celebrate and who we worship. 

Don’t be guilty of heuristic bias or simply “going through the motions”!

 

Jill and I got away to spend an entire day with one another without the kids.  Wow! We actually had a conversation without interruption.  I will admit that after a day you start to miss those interruptions.  We used our opportunity and time to take in an afternoon movie and we went to see Fireproof.  It was great!  Here are some thoughts:

  • Marriage is hard and there will be challenges in every marriage.
  • You can’t have a successful and growing marriage without outside help.  Parents, friends, and in my opinion, a church family offer needed support. 
  • It is hard to have a great, long-lasting marriage without faith in Jesus.  Doing marriage without God makes the challenges much harder to overcome. 
  • Unconditional love is necessary for both parties to make a marriage last.
  • Never Give Up!
  • Successful marriages that last long do so after resisting temptations.
  • Individuals must be willing to see their own faults first in order to make the marriage grow. 
  • People are watching and when a great marriage overcomes trials and troubles, people will see Jesus as a result.  God uses marriages to shine His light. 

Fireproof was a great movie and I recommend it to anyone.  My friends at Sherwood have something special going in their ministry and God is using them in a great way.

 

Some things are simply more important than Football! I love this story because it gives me a picture of real faith. The Richt family want to be Jesus in a practical way and responded to God’s leadership in their life. This is what CHURCH is really about. What an example of missional living! This is a family of true faith.

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